What You Need to Know Before Applying for a Child Contact Order 

If you’re considering applying for a child contact order, it’s essential to understand how mediation fits into the process. Here are five crucial things to know about mediation before heading to court. 

Emergency Situations

In urgent situations, you may need to skip mediation before applying for a child contact order (also known as a child arrangements order). If a child faces serious harm, has been abducted, or needs immediate decisions about schooling or healthcare, you can request an emergency child arrangements order. Courts usually address these applications within one to two days.

While mediation is generally required, emergencies often waive this step. Always seek legal advice to ensure you follow the correct procedure.

Domestic Abuse exemption from mediation

If you’ve experienced domestic abuse and can provide evidence, you may not need to attend mediation. Acceptable evidence includes police reports, medical records, photos, or witness statements. A lawyer can help you bypass mediation and apply directly for a contact order.

If you choose to attend mediation, the mediator will assess whether the case is suitable. If they find mediation inappropriate due to domestic abuse, they will issue a certificate confirming that mediation is not required. 

Mediation in Parallel with a Court Application for a Contact Order

Some people choose to apply to court while starting mediation at the same time. This keeps the court process moving if the other party is uncooperative or mediation takes longer than expected. If you reach an agreement in mediation, you have options. You can withdraw your child contact order application and follow the mediated agreement, or submit a consent order to the court to close the case.

The Four-Month Rule

Mediation certificates are only valid for four months. This means that if you don’t apply to court within four months of your last mediation session, you’ll need to restart the mediation process. Keep this timeline in mind to avoid unnecessary delays in your application for a contact order or child arrangements order. 

Mediation Is Cheaper and Quicker

Mediation is often quicker and cheaper than going to court. Sessions can wrap up in a week, while child contact cases may take anywhere from four months to three years. Mediation is also less emotionally draining for everyone involved. Although only court orders are enforceable by the police, mediated agreements are legally binding. Judges typically uphold these agreements, making mediation a reliable option in many cases. 

Start Your Journey to Peace of Mind

If you’re ready to explore family mediation for your contact order or if you have questions about the process, we’re here to help. Contact Family Mediation Services on 0300 360 2700 or email us at admin@familymediationservices.co.uk. Let us guide you toward a resolution that prioritises the well-being of your family.