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How Long Does Mediation Take?

Separating couples usually ask this question before any other, and the answer depends largely on the circumstances you need to resolve. However, clear patterns exist, and Family Mediation Services can guide you through each stage of the process. In this guide, we explain the typical timeline for each type of case, so you can plan your finances, your family arrangements…

What Kind of Agreements Come Out of Mediation?

You may be asking: what kind of agreements come out of mediation? The short answer is simple. Mediation helps you and your former partner make practical decisions about money, children and other family matters. At Family Mediation Services, an accredited mediator guides these talks and keeps them calm, fair and focused. What can you agree on in mediation? So, what…

What Is Child Inclusive Mediation (CIM)?

What is child inclusive mediation (CIM)? In short, it is a specialised form of family mediation that allows your child to express their views while you and your co-parent plan your future arrangements. At Family Mediation Services, we understand that separation affects children profoundly. Therefore, we offer them a safe and supportive way to be heard. What Is Child Inclusive…

How to Mediate a Child Maintenance Dispute

Child maintenance disputes often become one of the most painful parts of separation. Current laws do not always fix every problem, so many parents turn to Family Mediation Services and other mediation providers instead. This guide explains how to resolve a child maintenance dispute through mediation, and it also shows why an accredited mediator can help both parents move forward.…

Does cohabitation with a new partner affect spousal maintenance?

Many separating couples ask the same question once a new partner appears: does cohabitation with a new partner affect spousal maintenance? The answer is yes. Understanding why can help you plan your money with confidence. At Family Mediation Services, our mediators guide people through this exact question every week. We also offer wider Family Support Services to help families move…

How long does it take for the court to approve a financial settlement consent order?

Many separating couples ask the same question: how long does it take for the court to approve a financial settlement consent order? Generally, the court approves a consent order within one to six months. However, this answer is hard to pin down because every family’s asset portfolio differs, and the timeline often depends on whether you tried mediation or resolved…

Can the Mediation Service help me Decide how much Supervised Contact my Family Needs?

Many parents wonder: can the mediation service help me decide how much supervised contact my family needs? Deciding on the right level of supervised contact can feel overwhelming, especially when emotions run high. Fortunately, a mediation service can guide you through this process and help you work out how much supervised contact your family needs. Staff at the mediation service…

What Happens If I Skip the MIAM?

Many people ask, “What happens if I skip the MIAM?” before they start a family court application. A Mediation Information and Assessment Meeting, known as a MIAM, is normally the first step before you apply to court for child arrangements or a financial settlement. However, some people wonder whether they can bypass this stage entirely. This article explains what actually…

What happens if family mediation becomes difficult?

Family disputes can bring out strong emotions, and many people ask what happens if family mediation becomes heated or abusive before their first session. Fortunately, Family Mediation Services trains every accredited mediator to manage conflict safely and to keep both parties protected throughout the process. Consequently, you can approach mediation with confidence, even when the subject matter feels personal or…

Asset Division Mediation vs Court

Asset Division Mediation vs Court: Which Route Suits You Best? When a relationship ends, you must decide how to split your money, property, and pensions. Many separating couples now ask about asset division mediation vs court, and the answer often shapes the whole separation process. So, how is asset division mediation different from going to court? This guide compares both…

How to Mediate Child Arrangements with Your Ex-Partner

How to Mediate Child Arrangements with Your Ex-Partner

Learn how to mediate and negotiate child arrangements after separation can be challenging, especially when ex-partners have different parenting styles or struggle to see eye-to-eye. However, there are practical ways to improve co-parenting without needing court involvement. 1. Play the Long Game Achieving a balanced family arrangement takes time. You might start with small steps, like agreeing to daytime visits,…

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How to Get Financial Support for Your Child from the Other Parent

How to Get Financial Support for Your Child from the Other Parent

When it comes to ensuring that your child receives adequate financial support from the other parent, the conversation can be challenging. However, raising key points during family mediation can make a significant difference. Here are five critical factors to consider when negotiating child maintenance, financial support, or trying to raise more money: 1. Lifestyle Discrepancies One crucial point to address…

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Navigating Financial Agreements After Separation

Navigating Financial Agreements After Separation

Navigating financial agreements after separation can be a daunting a complex journey; it’s essential to understand the key steps and considerations involved. Whether you’re going through a divorce or simply separating from a partner, effective mediation can help you reach a fair financial agreement without the need for court intervention. Here at Family Mediation Services, we specialize in helping you…

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Unlock Free Family Mediation

Unlock Free Family Mediation

As the cost of living continues to rise, many families are feeling the pinch, making it crucial to unlock free family mediation with legal aid. Even after a change in government following 14 years of Conservative leadership, the economic pressures remain. Families across the country are turning to public funding sources, whether it’s through benefits, free childcare during the summer…

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Child Maintenance Agreements With Your Ex

Child Maintenance Agreements With Your Ex

In today’s blog, we share five simple and legal ways you can come to child maintenance agreements with your ex-partner. Utilize the Child Maintenance Calculator Firstly, before seeking out external help, both parents can reach a child maintenance agreement independently using the Child Maintenance Calculator. This tool provides a guideline for calculating payments based on various factors, ensuring both parents…

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Family Mediation Doesn’t Have to Cost a Fortune

Family Mediation Doesn’t Have to Cost a Fortune

Family mediation doesn’t have to cost a fortune. In this blog, I’ll walk you through how you can secure legal aid for family mediation, particularly for child arrangements like access, contact, residence, or child maintenance disputes. 1. Low Income If you’re in receipt of Universal Credit and have received a payment in the last 30 days, you automatically qualify for…

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