MIAM Mediation Process: What Happens After a MIAM Meeting?
If you are separating or in a dispute about children or finances, you may be required to attend a MIAM before applying to the family court. Many people ask what happens after a MIAM meeting and want to know how the MIAM mediation process actually works in practice.
This guide explains the family mediation process step by step, from booking your MIAM to reaching agreement. It also advises on obtaining a MIAM court certificate if mediation does not go ahead or breaks down.
What Is a MIAM?
A MIAM (Mediation Information and Assessment Meeting) is a short meeting with a qualified accredited family mediator. Its purpose is to:
- Explain how mediation works
- Assess whether mediation is suitable for your case
- Help you understand your options before going to court
You normally need to attend A MIAM meeting before making applications to the family court relating to:
- Child arrangements
- Financial matters following separation
MIAM Mediation Process Explained (Step by Step)
1. Book and Attend Your MIAM Meeting
You attend your MIAM on your own, usually remotely. During this meeting, the accredited mediator will:
- Explain the mediation process
- Discuss your situation
- Assess suitability for mediation
In most cases, on the same day as your MIAM, we will write to the other person to invite them to mediation.
Important note:
In some circumstances, you may request that we contact the other party immediately you book your appointment. If you choose this option, your MIAM fee becomes non-refundable once contact is made.
2. Invitation Sent to the Other Party
After your MIAM, the other person is normally invited to attend their own MIAM meeting. They are usually given 14 days to respond and confirm whether they are willing to engage in mediation.
This waiting period is a standard part of the MIAM mediation process.
3. Waiting 14 Days for a Response
At this stage, one of three things happens:
- ✅ The other person agrees to attend a MIAM
- ❌ They or you refuse mediation
- ⚠️ They do not respond
If there is no agreement or no response after 14 days, you may request your MIAM court certificate.
4. If the Other Party Engages in Mediation
If the other person agrees:
- They attend their own MIAM
- The mediator assesses whether mediation is suitable for both of you
Joint sessions are normally booked immediately if mediation is appropriate and you both agree to proceed.
5. Booking the First Joint Mediation Session
Your first joint mediation session is usually:
- Booked with at least one week’s notice
- Held remotely, unless you request an in-person meeting
The accredited mediator will guide discussions and help you work towards practical solutions.
6. How Many Mediation Sessions Might you need?
Most cases involve:
- 2 to 5 mediation sessions, depending on complexity
Sessions may cover:
- Child arrangements
- Communication issues
- Financial disclosure and settlement
7. Reaching an Agreement
If you reach agreement:
- A written mediation agreement is produced
- You can later turn it into a legally binding document, if needed
You can still request your MIAM court certificate to proceed to court if no agreement is reached, .
Final Thoughts
Understanding the MIAM mediation process helps you:
- Avoid unnecessary court delays
- Know your legal options early
- Make informed decisions about mediation
The family mediation process is often quicker, less stressful, and more cost-effective than court proceedings. If you need support reaching an agreement or preparing documents, Family Mediation Services offers confidential, child-focused help from an accredited mediator. Contact us today if you have questions about What Happens After a MIAM Meeting or to book your MIAM. Alternatively, you can use the ‘Book an appointment’ link at the top of the page. Call today on 0300 365 2700 or email at admin@familymediationservices.co.uk
Frequently Asked Questions (FAQ)
After your MIAM, the other person is invited to mediation. If they do not engage within 14 days, you can request a MIAM court certificate.
No. The MIAM is an assessment meeting. Mediation only proceeds if both parties agree and it is suitable.
This varies on whether you only have a MIAM or you go on to mediate. If just a MIAM – then normally 3 weeks, but in many cases you complete joint mediation within a few weeks to a few months.
Only if mediation is unsuitable or the other party refuses. You will still need a MIAM court certificate in most cases.